Thursday, December 29, 2022

Invincible Smiles: Hope despite ongoing crisis

 I know they’re invincible. I know that there is nothing under the sun which can defeat them, which can persecute them to the point of hopelessness, strike them down so they do not rise, fall upon them so they do not dust themselves off and start again. In my own few years I have witnessed their response to Hurricanes George and Matthew, the flooding and destruction; the world (in)famous 2010 earthquake and subsequent cholera epidemic; cycles of presidents, coups, and protests that blockaded the nation, choked the air with the black smoke of burning tires, and filled the streets with rubble and bloody bodies.

I have been to the local hospitals where the shelves are bare and the lights flicker, where what care the doctors might have mustered has sweated out with their hopes and ideals, drowned by the dreary reality of constant helplessness and inability to grant relief with no supplies and no funding. I have demanded immediate treatment for a needy student, gone door to door to the adjoining green and white pharmacies for prescriptions the patient could never afford. I have been impressed and depressed at the methods of medicine which do without electricity and steady supply of one-time use gloves and syringes.

I have wept with gratitude standing under the cold flow of the shower, remembering the labors of our friends and students pumping water at their local cistern or toting buckets from the reservoir. In that same reservoir women scrub clothes, pigs wade, men wash their motorcycles, and children bathe. I have grimaced walking the unpaved streets after a rain, dodging the gray flow of sewage water clotted with trash, and have watched safe and dry from the car’s interior as pedestrians and moto-drivers navigate the rising flood of that same gray, trashy water during the driving rain.

I have rubbed cream on white spots of fungus on so many heads, on circles of ringworm, on burns and bites and oozing wounds. I have given soap and washcloths and helped scrub faces and hands that had no chance to learn or do at home. I have held children with fevers, stomach ills, headaches, broken bones, all better off there at school where there was someone to watch them, medicine to give, water to drink, and the possibility of a doctor’s care. The office where we were meant to have administrative discussions, grade papers, plan lessons, or meet with parents, was almost always also a nurse’s office hosting at least one sick child. It was here they were introduced to Band-Aids, antibiotic ointment, thermometers, and acetaminophen and ibuprofen.

 

I have spread peanut butter on hundreds and hundreds of crackers to give as a meager morning meal—something to tide the children over until their proper midday meal of rice and beans (every day the same fare). Many mornings children joined me in the kitchen, eating extra crackers before class to ease their hunger pains. But the crowd of children became so large we had to stop this practice and simply ready the plates as fast as we could so they might eat.

Most days the rice pots were scraped clean as students wolfed down their first heaping helpings and raced back for seconds. I made the phrases “I’m hungry” and “I want a cracker” part of our English lessons. Although these children will probably always live in poverty, unable to fulfill their wants or even basic needs, we persist in teaching them assertion. They will become their own advocates.

They learn to ask for water, for medicine, and for hugs. The last is a breakthrough I’ll never forget.

Although our supplies of rice and beans and crackers and peanut butter are limited, although medicine and ointments can always cure the ills, we can always supply hugs. And there is never a shortage of requests. As children learn the power of hugs, the warmth, the refuge, the nourishment that could overcome hunger pangs and swellings and sores, we push them to hug their parents and guardians. And we tell those parents and guardians to hug their children. The awkward unfamiliarity of so many of those hugs breaks my heart. For far too many, our orders of “Hug your son!” or “Hug your mama!” instigate the first time, or the first time in a very long time, that parents and children had embraced. That they had touched with gentleness and affection rather than punishment and anger.

The staff reminds one another to hug the children as much as possible, knowing that our arms might well be the only welcome they ever know. The short hours at school are to treasure the children: to listen to them, be silly with them, hold them, and, of course, to teach them academics, health, and God’s Word. The children come to know best words we repeat every day: “I love you. Jesus loves you more!”

 

Although my working title at the Peacemaker School of Petit Goave, formerly called Christian Academy, was “English teacher,” my mission is always to love the children. There were days I missed teaching due to preparing peanut butter crackers, administering first aid, counseling, or taking someone to the hospital—doing what was needed at the moment. Each of these missed lessons was a loss, time I mourned because classes were a joy. But I could never regret choosing one form of love and aid over another. And these choices, to stay and help run Preschool while their teacher was ill, to extend sixth grade class so we could finish the poetry books, to coach a small group of students for a Bible skit; these choices were just constant confirmation that I could not help everyone, could not fix everything, but could only do my small part, one piece at a time, one day at a time, one person at a time.

This is the kind of thinking we must maintain to work in the third world. Lose sight of the small things, of the individual soul, and we will be overcome with despair at the chasm of need, the hopelessness of such suffering.

 

They have not lost hope. Even now, when so many of us missionaries and aid workers have fled, when fuel and food supplies are blocked, when schools are attacked and hospitals are burned, the resilient Haitian people have not given up. They have seen disaster, they have lived hardship, and they only ever had little to lose. Now, when circumstances are worse than ever, when gangs indiscriminately kidnap, assault, torment, and murder, the Haitian people persist. Our Ti Goave children persist.

I don’t know why it should still surprise me. As aforementioned, I’ve witnessed some of Haiti’s greatest disasters and the people’s dogged response to keep living; I’ve visited their homes and seen how they survive on the sparsest provisions. It should be no surprise to see the children smiling. To see their brilliance shining through all the evil in the background.

Yet, once again, the pictures of them, clustered on the plain wooden benches in the campus courtyard, hugging bundles of food stuffs in their skinny arms, I am taken aback at their joy. I feel at once humbled and astounded and impressed and dumbfounded and ashamed and thankful and proud. My heart bursts with love all over again, new and shining with hope. Hope that has been dwindling, crushed beneath the load of bad news and horrible reports, mountains beyond mountains of obstacles which have deprived these children of education, safety, food, water, health care, their very innocence.

They never lost hope. And they smile still. Those smiles can almost make you forget the bad news, the very real and present dangers of marauding gangsters and invisible diseases; those smiles bring beauty to even the most emaciated faces, sunken eyes and wasted cheeks, arms and legs that appear far too frail to carry those treasured bags of rice and hike the hills home. Of course, the dangers are still there and Haiti is still in crisis, veritably anarchy without government leadership or humanitarian resources.

But God is still there, too. While most of us who can, both foreign and Haitian, have left and now watch anxiously from exile, God stayed. He has not and will not ever abandon His children. Even if we doubt, flounder in bewilderment as to why God has left Haiti to the wicked, these children still believe. Our faithful Christian brothers and sisters in Haiti still believe—they have known far longer and better than we privileged foreigners that God is their only hope.

When the cistern is dry, the pot is empty, and the charcoal runs out; when the rent is due on the over-crowded house with the leaky roof, when illness strikes, when thieves break in and steal and rats and damp destroys; when there are no emergency services, no social workers, no health insurance, no food pantries, scholarships or relief packages; when there is no evacuation helicopter, no way out and no way ahead, there is only One Hope. It is not the Great White Hope. We are not the Great White Hope. None of us are, no matter how hard we work, how much money we raise, how many barrels or pallets of supplies we send, how many houses we build, how many students we teach or children we sponsor. We may help to spread hope, but we are not the Source.

God is the Only Hope. God alone can stand against any gangster and any weapon, remains unaffected by any disease or malady, never weakens from hunger, thirst, or overwork. He never sleeps and He never loses sight of a single wandering child, desperate mother, or humiliated father. And although He may not grant a life of ease and comfort, may not smite down all the corrupt officials and gun-toting gangsters as we might wish, God will come through.

Somehow God has always come through for these children. He has put them in school when their families could not pay school fees. He has delivered the MannaPack rice for the children’s meals through blockades and fuel shortages. He has paid the school staff and building rent. He has sent doctors, dentists, and specialists at just the right times. He sent a team to paint all the walls white and fill the school with light. He sent carpenters and electricians to build benches, bookcases, stools, and handrails, and to wire the building for lights and fans. He has arranged relationships with bankers, pharmacists, police officers, customs officials, booksellers, pilots, and barrel-shippers to fill needs. He provided a motorcycle to transport daily food and water. He has saved students and staff from vehicular accidents and hypertension. He arranged a beautiful graduation during COVID lockdown. He provided a new campus and residence and secondary school. He has safely transported staff and supplies to and from the capital warzone, again and again. Somehow God has always come through. Even in tragedy He has brought good.  

When we reflect, we cannot deny God’s goodness. He has provided and protected His ministry innumerable times. While watching Haiti from afar, still waiting for news of improvement, we can remember all these ways God has proved Himself over and over. Even as our hearts ache at the increased suffering of the Haitian people, even as we long to be there with our loved ones, we remember that God is there, bringing Hope in the darkness. And we can rejoice with every smiling face of another child who has not forgotten from whence comes real Hope.

 





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